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Why does depression keep surprising us?

Harmison and Flintoff in 2007Freddie Flintoff: Hidden Side of Sport explored the phenomenon of depression amongst sports stars, highlighting a problem that blights people from all walks of sport — champions and vanquished, happy-go-lucky types and introspective stars alike.

It was powerful, and it was honest. But it should not have been a surprise.

Why is it one?

It's nothing new. Depression in sport is long-known, and in cricket in particular it is, sadly, an entrenched problem.

More than a decade ago studies revealed that the suicide rate in cricketers in Britain was 75% higher than the average rate of suicide in men in the UK. Since then, we've seen the stress of international cricket take a very public toll on Graham Thorpe, Marcus Trescothick, Steve Harmison and Michael Yardy to name just four. Now Flintoff has shed a little light on his own personal struggles during the ill-fated 2006/7 Ashes series, culminating in an infamous escapade at the World Cup involving booze, pedalos and a rescue at sea.

Sports stars are people, and people are prone to depression. According to the Office of National Statistics, around 8-12% of the population suffer depression in any given year — as Flintoff drily observes in his documentary, that's statistically one member of every cricket team. Must it really still shock us?

Morgan: A beacon of empathyThe trouble is the way that players are viewed.

You only have to look at Piers Morgan (unfortunately, Cowers adds), who made a pantomime villain's appearance in Flintoff's documentary.

Having read through some of the tabloid write-ups of his pedalo episode in 2007 for the first time, Flintoff asks former Daily Mirror editor Morgan about the way the media treats sports stars. Morgan peddled the line that he didn't believe, at least at the time while he was editing newspapers, that it was possible to be an England international and be depressed.

"I don't think the media should have to worry too much about how they report sports," Morgan says.

"The rewards are massive, and the downside is occasionally you get a headline you don't like.

"I don't think most sports journalists or news journalists or editors of newspapers really cared that much about the sensitivities of highly-paid sportsmen.

"Our view then was that if you're called to play for your country at sport, it's such an incredible privilege and honour that to actually claim to be depressed because you're having to stay in a five-star hotel while you're playing cricket for England is ridiculous."

The cliché that sports stars are living the dream, that they deserve no sympathy because they are doing what they love and being amply rewarded for it, simply doesn't wash. Of course there are perks — but there are also potentially numbing pressures, and even if you avoid those there's no reason why even the happiest of sporting lives means you escape demons in your personal life.

Not armed with all the information, and following a media which often displays Morgan-esque levels of sympathy, fans often fail to see their sports stars in these human terms.  Harmison on away tours, for instance, attracted dismay from supporters at times, ridicule at others. 'Homesickness', as it was routinely branded, was not a good enough reason to not be the bowler he had shown himself to be in the past.

As outsiders looking in, however, supporting and agonising in equal measure, it's usually very difficult to see the reasons behind losses of form. Was Harmison, we wondered, simply not playing well, or working hard enough? Perhaps just being soft? Seriously suffering emotionally, maybe? The lines between those possibilities are blurry enough for the sportsman himself, let alone us. We are guessing when we try to interpret what we see on the field, like the opening ball of the 2006-7 Ashes, which Harmison bowled straight to Flintoff at second slip.

That's perhaps part of the problem, of course — we are outsiders looking in. Gone are the days when we see the England cricket team in the pub after a game and can have a chat with them, and can truly think of them as being just like us. Football went down that road long ago, rugby is following.  If you only see them on television or hyped up in the media, at some point, even just a fraction — they become dehumanised.

Hatton floored by PacquiaoBut they are still like us, and they are prone to those same weaknesses that we, or people we know, suffer from. Ricky Hatton admits that he got terrified walking into the ring on the nights of big fights. Graeme Dott was reduced to a quivering wreck in matches in the year when he was the reigning world snooker champion. Wimbledon hard-man Vinnie Jones felt suicidal at times when his team-mates were looking to him to keep the side's morale up. Flintoff broke down in tears to his father at a time when he was star player and captain of his country.

Their weaknesses should elicit some sympathy and understanding from us. Hell, it should also inspire us to know we might be able to scale some of the heights they've reached in our own lives, too.

 

15 comments

  • jonal  •  London, England  •  4 months ago
    Well said and about time too that sports stars are treated the same as the rest of us. A five star hotel or any kind of luxury or fame is not a cure for depression. Ask anyone suffering from depression rather than making assumptions by looking in from the outside as many do..
    A few of my friends are long-term depressives. One of them is a millionaire and made more cash in half an hour on the phone acting as agent for the sale of a hotel than I make in a month.
    Listening to him was a lesson in diplomacy and leadership. In half an hour the deal was done, a meeting arranged, and both sides happy.Three days later Den had a big cheque and the the next day he was back to his gloom.
    He can win in finance and he can deal with people admirably in negotiations but he can't win the happiness deal against his own head. He's still a very nice guy though and a pleasure to know.
  • Wally  •  4 months ago
    Agreed Sydney - however many times we hear the real stories of sports stars the press still come out with the same callous cliches first and only ask questions later. Morgan is just typical of the attitude of 'red-top' newspaper journalists. Good to see a more enlightened blog - more like it please Cowers.
  • Mannan  •  Birmingham, England  •  4 months ago
    What do you expect from the Fool Piers Morgan. The man has lost any touch with humanity. Coming out with 'anything you throw in your bin is free for the public domain' when trying to justify using discarded notes and letters for headline stories when he was Editor of News of the World. Pathetic fool.
  • Sydney  •  4 months ago
    And a typical lack of wisdom and understanding from Morgan.
  • Mark  •  Reading, England  •  4 months ago
    Depression in a "high achiever" might be more difficult to deal with, since it can be the fact that the very rewards of success does not palliate the feelings of worthlessness and emptiness. If the goal of playing for your country, of having an envious lifestyle, of being admired by thousands, does not make you feel good - then what would? All those responses which infer that simply having those material things should make anyone feel "good" simply do not understand depression - and are thus also very lucky not to suffer from it. Unlike the old joke about if money cannot buy happiness it does allow you a better class of misery, depression is the same whether you are anxious about whether you have a job or whether you have the best job in the world; it is how you feel about yourself.
  • A  •  London, England  •  4 months ago
    Dizzy, you're just plain wrong. Poverty and a hard life can be linked to depression but they aren't the same thing. Far more obvious still, the trappings of wealth, success and fame and happiness are even more not the same thing and even if they would genuinely make you completely happy (as opposed to somewhat happier), it doesn't necessarily go for everyone else. Sad that in 2012 the bleedin' obvious like this still has to be pointed out to some people.
    • Dizzy 4 months ago
      I had depression about ten years ago when I was in my teens. I was on a daily dosage of a drug called fluoxetin hydrochloride. I can sympathize with genuine sufferers of depression. However, were all these guys genuinely suffering from depression. If they were, it completely paralyzes you. You are not able to function properly. It's impossible to go about your normal life normally. Yet these guys were still performing perfectly well in their job. I don't know if you can have depression and it not affect your performance in your job. My problem came about as a result of a perfect storm of depression-inducing events including two deaths of friends and family, poor performance in exams, the loss of a job and an anxiety problem. One day, I stopped moping about, threw the pills in the bin and decided to man up. I have never had to take them since and bad things have happened since. My view is bad things happen but they happen to everyone. But I am in a fortunate position. I'm not starving, I don't have bills I cannot pay and I do not feel as though my life is in immediate peril. The same applies to these sportsmen. They are a bunch of softies who need to man up and put things in perspective and stop bleeting. I think it is a result of psychological weakness which can be easily overcome if you show a bit of wiillpower and mental strength. Honestly, how would these people cope if they had real problems? So you cannot see your family while you're on a cricket tour. Big deal, it's a short career and you'll have plenty of time with them down the line. You're in a fortunate position that millions would love to be in. You're earning great money. Sorry but sympathy is in short supply from me on this one.
  • tony  •  Bangkok, Thailand  •  4 months ago
    Dizzy, you obviously have no compassion or understanding of depression. Even more obviously, you have never suffered from it and I wouldn't wish it on you or anybody else. Thank you Cowers for a thought provoking and informative article.
    The Bounder, Thailand
    • Dizzy 4 months ago
      You're wrong. I do have sympathy for genuine sufferers of depression. Depression is a long term thing. These guys got a bit upset coz they were away from their family for a bit on tour. Grow a pair and get on with it. It's all nonsense and you lot swallowed it. Do you lot genuinely believe this #$%$ Are you saying Harmison bowled to the slip in the ashes because he was depressed? Don't be so stupid! Harmison was never depressed and neither was Flintoff. It's garbage.
  • Mannan  •  Birmingham, England  •  4 months ago
    Good article. Really good finishing paragraph. Well said Cowers.
  • Andrew  •  Maidstone, England  •  4 months ago
    Its good stuff - a balanced perspective. Morgan and his ilk do a fair bit of damage but those with some perceptive analysis ( and people who like to read good comment in the broadsheets - marks, martin jenkins and co ) - plus those who've played a bit at some level, and people who've done a few rough jobs ( in fact large tracts of the perfidiuos albion public ) know a spot of depression is all over the place. I suspect they get it a bit worse than most because like rock stars - there are big highs and then a comedown - also there on a pretty demanding global schedule these days and I suspect the big loop ( plus loops within the loops ) may take a bit of getting used too. - Maybe a LATERAL thinking global tour and the WHEEL of cricket. - lateral and holistic - not vertical - boom / bangg -- easier said than done! Plus flintoff and co got to deal with post playing career fallout. - Mind fallout. Changes -- its all change. Alot catches up with you - what next aaacchh. I've had it a bit post maniac driving work and after a grand southern hemisphere arty adventure expedition. Potential cures. - Accept a bit of the rough with the smoothe. Read the paper and books in the downtime ( do the sport like a london cabbie - a good one ). I find some sketchbook doodling helps alot and practical from the drawing / plans work helps = Get the mind back over the matter and yours eyes out of the soup. If their schedules were relaxed a bit ( and the moneyed overseer types were not so greedy ) , they could cut down on six , seven series one dayers - this may help. I maybe living in a bit of an armchair cloud cuckoo land here but there is some logic to it - possilbly even a few wise words in there. Also unfortunately I think Murdoch and co and greedy old men want to stretch the young " stars " to breaking point - envious of their talent, probably still got a grudge from not being sporty at school - simply envious of these guys being young men and therefore swamp and stretch them and #$%$ journalists make easy provocative pot shots to sell papers. Captain crackpot has spoken !!
    • Andrew 3 months ago
      Well I thought that covered things well ! Life lesson people = Its the rough with the smoothe I'm afraid - accept it
  • Ian H  •  London, England  •  4 months ago
    Its a bit difficult to swallow all this from an idiot like Flintoff. All Flintoff's trouble were self inflicted through unprofessional behaviour. Yardy and Trescothick were genuinely unwell and Flintoff's increaingly pathetic attempts to jump on any bandwagon going to keep himself in the public eye is nauseous. He will never get away from the fact that he pi ssed his talent up the wall and doesn't deserve to be a media "personality" on the back of half a dozen decent performances over a "career" blighted by alohol abuse and lack of application.
  • Sydney  •  4 months ago
    A thoughtful and compassionate blog from Cowers about a sad reality in sport.
  • Rane  •  4 months ago
    what you expect when they ride high and gets dropped like a piece of nothing
  • Brian  •  Biggleswade, England  •  4 months ago
    I think Morgan has a point. These "stars" have more back room staff flapping around them than most of us will see doctors in our lifetime. They flip out words like "pressure" and "stress" when they are sat around in a hotel room in Barbados earning the sort of money in a week most of us could only dream of getting in a year. For going out and hitting a ball about. If they want to find out about depression they should try and live on Income Support in Islington for a few weeks. As a single parent. Trescothick, Flintoff, Yardy, Speed et al seem to think that it's harder for them. I know about the "Black Wings" Tres talks of so blithely. If you cut us poor pigs, do we not bleed? Is there some reason why the pain is any less? These guys have their thousands of dollars to keep them sorted. Seem to think, like rock stars, we should give them some sort of special treatment 'cos they are good at their job? Tell me again when Fat Freddie last taught a class of 120 African Kids. Tell me again when Marcus last pushed a trolley round Asda. Pressure, stress, hah. They don't know the meaning of the words. Yes, yes, I've cried too. On one occasion it was because I couldn't afford to buy my daughter the present she wanted for Christmas. Much aqs I hate to agree with Morgan, on this occasion, he's got it right.
    • Andrew 3 months ago
      I think your right - There pampered and whinging in comfort. They should be made to go and do a spot of pavillion woodwork and painting and decorating their cricket grounds for a bit ! that'll wake em up to their snazzy global sporty lifestyles and maybe make them appreciate what they've actually got going for themselves for a change - I hate to say this but the ozzies have a got a point with WHINGING POMS - Their job sure beats ten hours of hard slog down a coal mine
  • Dizzy  •  4 months ago
    Honestly, What a self-indulgent programme for Flintoff to produce. I've lost some respect for this brilliant former sportsman. Even if it is such a major problem, what are we supposed to do about it? Just deal with it yourself and stop making #$%$ tv programmes F.F.S!
  • Dizzy  •  4 months ago
    Oh, leave off, will you guys. Depression is sleeping on the side of the street in a shop doorway when it's snowing. Depression is going to sleep at night as a soldier wondering if the next day, out of all the sniper bullets that will be fired, has one of them got your name on it. Depression is knowing that you're fighting a terminal illness which will claim you within months, regardless off what you choose to do in the interim. I cannot stand Morgan. He's a creep in my opinion. However, for once, he is bang on. If Flintoff thinks that I am going to worry about his poor soul in the circumstances in which he finds himself, he's mistaken. You guys need to have a word with yourself. What next? The benevolent fund for poor unfortunate cricketers. No, I'll give my money to save the heroes or tsunami relief funds or the RSPCC. I could not believe this pathetic programme was aired in the first place. I'm not saying money is everything but 90% of life's problems are solved with it and if you can't deal with the rest - tough. Honestly, I feel ill reading this. A sense of perspective anyone? Jesus h Christ!!

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Cow Corner had a sheltered upbringing - it was educated from home and forfeited text books for hardback copies of Wisden Almanack with the only visual stimulation being the John Player League. "Cowers" is the illegitimate sibling of Early Doors and can often be seen on park benches around St John"s Wood trying to sell signed copies of Colin Dredge’s autobiography. Cow has been known to bowl some military medium whilst wielding the long handle at the bottom of the order and answers to one God and one God only, that known as Benaud.