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dogs - you display the classic signs of low self-esteem - you invite criticism to the poin...

dogs - you display the classic signs of low self-esteem - you invite criticism to the point of self flagellation, you obviously have poor self image, don't think you're good enough and seem to get off on people hating and wanting to do harm to you.

I suspect it boils down to a poor childhood, single mother perhaps? no father influence, maybe you didn't get any love or hugs as a child. Were you abused, physically and mentally, your anger issues and self loathing are deeply routed and all about how little you feel about yourself.

You need break the cycle of self hatred, change the dialogue in your head. An internal critic fuels self-hate, so step one is to silence the voices by consciously making yourself repeat a positive response for every negative thought you have. Why be your own worst critic?

Forgive yourself, remember it's not your fault that you weren't loved, that your parents weren't there for you as a child and that the other kids as school thought you were a loser.

Avoid comparing yourself to the good people here because it only leads to further insecurity and self hatred.

Take care of your appearance. Fat people with a bad body image often stop making an effort, believing there is 'no point' they had no friends and are often the basis of put downs and ridicule.

Be aware that we teach others how to treat us. Practice projecting yourself as someone whose opinions are just as valid as others, and your sense of self-worth will begin to rise.

Basically you need help and lots of it, and I am sure if you open your heart to the others here, then the love will flow in and you'll find that are people here who can help you feel good about yourself again.

Best wishes
Claret!

Michael Winner or some poof from the east end? I know who I'd pick.

Michael Winner or some poof from the east end? I know who I'd pick.

and you sound like that idiot Michael Winner, bet you look like him too

and you sound like that idiot Michael Winner, bet you look like him too

Viera only has his name and reputation to sell. Anybody who pays the current Viera 85k a w...

Viera only has his name and reputation to sell. Anybody who pays the current Viera 85k a week, need their bumps felt...........Shadow of the player he was IMO

hhahahahahah brilliant alfie, reastens very public humiliations keep getting worse hahahah...

hhahahahahah brilliant alfie, reastens very public humiliations keep getting worse hahahahhaaa check the cfc board he comes off just as bad over there, the boy is too thick you see !


cheers, Derek

I wish WHU had scrapped the barrel and come up with­ Owen he's head and shoulders abov...

I wish WHU had scrapped the barrel and come up with­ Owen he's head and shoulders above Ashton who may­ be a tad taller but he will never measure up to Owen on­ the field or in life.

Give me the start & finish dates for when you did the half marathon tilt. I reckon it mu...

Give me the start & finish dates for when you did the half marathon tilt.


I reckon it must have taken you several days because you kept tripping up on your bottom lip...HAHAHAHAHAHA!

" don't #$%$ume everyting is correct from third party " Third party? That's not a nice w...

" don't #$%$ume everyting is correct from third party "


Third party? That's not a nice way to refer to your "friend", especially when he's been busy licking your #$%$ on the Chelsea board! hehe


Back in my pocket you go my little pet plankton.

You see Richard, there's a lesson to be learnt here and that's don't assume ev...

You see Richard, there's a lesson to be learnt here and that's don't assume everyting is correct from third party. Back to class and stop drinking beer, it'll make u fat-----ter

" Now it just happens that I just might be doing the half marathon with Alfy " -Tiltonr...

" Now it just happens that I just might be doing the half marathon with Alfy "
-Tiltonroad

http://uk.messages.eurosport.yahoo.com/Football/Teams/threadview?bn=UKS-FO-west-ham-united&tid=49412&mid=49416


HAHAHAHAHAHA


You have just been caught with your knickers down you little #$%$......AGAIN.


Now I'm off to the pub for some beers....so my little plankton....hup hup huppppppppppppppppp !!

Are you f••king stupid? I know you're demented but surely 26 miles is a FULL marathon....

Are you f••king stupid? I know you're demented but surely 26 miles is a FULL marathon.

Anyway I DID FULLY clone the 1st ID with complete history, And that f••king annoyed you. So yea, f••king hilarious watching you get all confused as to what was going on hence the thread "just what the hell is going on here"

Do you want ketchup with those chips?

bah!!!

bah!!!

That worked eh?

That worked eh?

ahhh...the cyber party.......the one from which I was excluded, that one eh. ...well mat...

ahhh...the cyber party.......the one from which I was excluded, that one eh.


...well mate, I did the only decent thing left after you went AWOL....


...........I reported the whole f*cking lot on it to Yahoo !!


HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA...I know I know....I'm a complete b*stard !! hehe

haha...not my crispy duck you're not! I have just ordered one, I'll let you know h...

haha...not my crispy duck you're not! I have just ordered one, I'll let you know how it tastes.....

No worries Soppy. If it's any consolation you are not alone in having to apologise t...

No worries Soppy.


If it's any consolation you are not alone in having to apologise to me, just check the growing list in which you are my latest addition today:-


Alfy
Butch
Roy
Tilton
Irons
Alan
Soppy


If I had a quid for everytime someone apologised to me on here I would have enough for an aromatic crispy duck.................

" It's exactly what I posted a while back. " No it isn't. Mine is an e...

" It's exactly what I posted a while back. "


No it isn't. Mine is an expert analyses, yours was wishful thinking!


So I take it the home cooked Chinese is off the menu then?


Oh well.

Annoy me? Not at all. Plankton like you amuse me and that's why I humoured you and your fa...

Annoy me? Not at all. Plankton like you amuse me and that's why I humoured you and your fake ids Alfy; it was always a no contest mate with me being the top predator that I am.


In fact all it took was two slaps to the back of your soft head and you went scurrying back to the spud board crying your f*cking eyes out. hehe


SLAP 1: HD DVD Rules..............hahahaha!
Listen son I predicted blue ray would win a WHOLE YEAR in advance when even the industry experts were saying hd dvd would win let alone complete f*cking amateurs like you. I along with Sony PWNED the whole f*cking entertainment industry, now that's what I call pwning!


SLAP 2: You threatened to hijack my DS1 id....haha what a FAILURE that was eh my little plankton feeding friend.


Just search BMI on the manure board to see how to use the fatty insult properly! The way I tormented maritorma (now gone awol) should provide you with a good case study.


Now get back to your training for your HALF MARATHON you little #$%$.

You tell em al,a captains tale.

You tell em al,a captains tale.

ahhh such fond memories of annoying you back then my 'dinner for 2 please' eating ...

ahhh such fond memories of annoying you back then my 'dinner for 2 please' eating friend. hehe. Glad I still annoy you up to today.

Well I'll give u the blue-ray v HD DVD format contest but it was a 50/50 chance you'd get it right so congrats on your victory. Enjoy the open top parade. Lets celebrate with some chips yea

So tell me more about the 'fatty' insult my well rounded D shaped friend. I'm intrigued to why you would want to own such a profanity. Nothing to do with insecurity then mate ;)

P & S stuff was great fun

You're beginning to sound hysterical Roy....calm down...calm down.... hehe !!

You're beginning to sound hysterical Roy....calm down...calm down....


hehe !!