I think you read things that are not there or not intended to be there.
I try not tell people what they should or should not do. I feel more compeled to exchange with people who reply in the spirit of a question. Clearly they can also reply with wind-ups finger pointing or any other way they want.
Read my post again and you'll see that I did not say "people should respond in the spirit of the post" I just appreciate when they do.