I agree Paddy, and it looks like the first step has begun with the club not hiding and fining him. I'm sure the FA will sanction him, so that will take care of itself, but I'd add a third, which is the boy needs some professional help.
On the other matters your right. The only exception was the first corning of the second half which we took short and was the only set play where we really put the Chelsea goal under threat. Why do we not take more short corners?