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Dad with six months to live gets 'second shot of life' as Edinburgh medics make surprising discovery

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He said he's not taking life for granted anymore -Credit:Daily Record


A dad who began planning his own funeral after he was given six months to live says he was given a 'second shot of life' after medics in Edinburgh made a surprising discovery.

Callum Laing, 40, was diagnosed with a stage 4 Glioblastoma brain tumour, after he had been suffering from intense headaches earlier this year. Medics carried out a scan and discovered a mass roughly the size of an orange growing inside his skull.

The devastated dad-of-two was given just six months to live and had started to plan his funeral. However, just days later, when surgeons in Edinburgh attempted to operate on the growth, Callum was told that the lump was completely benign.

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The stunned father-of-two, from Kirkcaldy in Fife, told how he had been preparing to say goodbye to his wife and young children and has called the experience the "biggest rollercoaster of his life".

Callum told the Record: "When I was given the diagnosis the doctors told me I might not make it to Christmas and all I could think about was making precious memories with my wife Vikki and my wee boys Joey and Jed. They're only nine and four.

"It was a horrible, deep, sinking feeling. I wondered who was going to teach them to play football if I wasn't around.

"Then I thought of missing their birthdays and other big events like their graduations and weddings. It just broke me.

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Callum had started to plan his funeral -Credit:Daily Record

"These are all big milestones that you look forward to when you become a parent.

"And as your kids grow older, their wee personalities change and they become different people. I realised I wouldn't watch my boys grow into young men and that was very difficult to process. It scared me.

Callum also told how he made his wife promise she would meet someone else as the couple began to discuss what his final journey would look like.

He continued: "I started to think about my own funeral. I told Vikki I'd like to be cremated and I told her where to spread my ashes.

"I told her to take some to Seafield Beach in Kirkcaldy because that's where my mum and dad walk their dog every day. I was thinking about how devastated they would be.

"Then I told her to find another place where she and the boys can scatter the rest of my ashes. She told me not to speak like that, but I just wanted her to know.

"I even told her that I wanted her to meet someone else in the future and that my friends and family would support her.

"I wanted to have that conversation with her because I knew I wanted her to be happy. The thought of her spending the rest of her life on her own made me deeply sad."

The dad walked out of the Edinburgh hospital with kids Joey, nine, and Jed, four.
The dad walked out of the Edinburgh hospital with kids Joey, nine, and Jed, four. -Credit:Daily Record


Callum and Vikki decided to make the next few months the best of their family's lives, but just days later, an incredible turn of events took place.

Callum said: "I was in Edinburgh's Royal Infirmary for surgery on the tumour and before I went under I was pleading with the universe to let me live a year at the very least.

"When I woke up I asked my doctor how bad it was and at that moment he turned around and told me: 'You're not going to believe me. But it's not a tumour, it's an abscess. You're going to make a full recovery'.

"I couldn't believe it. I can honestly say that I felt like the luckiest man alive."

But despite his ordeal, Callum said he holds no anger towards the medics who delivered his terrifying diagnosis.

He said: "When I was told I was going to survive I felt nothing but pure euphoria. I was on the highest of highs. I'd just been on the biggest rollercoaster of my life.

"There was no anger whatsoever because I still believe I owe everything to these doctors.

"Now I've got another shot at life and I won't take it for granted. I don't think I'll ever drink alcohol or put a cigarette in my mouth again.

"It has changed my whole perspective. I have never felt so positive and energised."

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Callum Laing who was diagnosed with a stage 4 brain tumour. -Credit:Daily Record

Callum is now expecting to undergo between 16 to 20 weeks' worth of antibiotic treatment. In the meantime, he is planning a fundraiser for the hospital's Department of Clinical Neurosciences.

He said: "I made friends with a man on the ward who has had 12 brain surgeries, but there was no place for us to go and watch football or play on the computer.

"So by fundraising, I want to build a fun room for patients where they'll be able to get water or cups of tea. I'm determined that's what I will raise the money for."

You can donate to Callum's fundraiser here.